英语的励志句子 第1篇
That man is the richest whose pleasure are the cheapest.
能处处寻求快乐的人才是最富有的人。
You make the failure complete when you stop trying.
当你停止尝试的时候,你就完全失败了。
If winter comes , can spring be far behind ?( P. B. Shelley , British poet )
冬天来了,春天还会远吗?( 英国诗人, 雪莱. P. B.)
Will, work and wait are the pyramidal cornerstones for success.
意志、工作和等待是成功的金字塔的基石。
Success often depends upon knowing how long it will take to succeed.
成功常常取决于知道需要多久才能成功。
Think great thoughts and you will be great!
心怀伟大的理想,你将会变得伟大。
Only those who have the patience to do simple things perfectly ever acquire the skill to do difficult things easily.
只有有耐心圆满完成简单工作的人,才能够轻而易举的完成困难的事。
Gods determine what you're going to be.(Julius Erving)
人生的奋斗目标决定你将成为怎样的人。(欧文)
A man can succeed at almost anything for which he has unlimited enthusiasm.
无论何事,只要对它有无限的热情你就能取得成功。
If you would hit the mark, you must aim a little above it. Every arrow that flies feels the attraction of earth. -Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.
要想射中靶,必须瞄准比靶略为高些,因为脱弦之箭都受到地心引力的影响。
The man who has made up his mind to win will never say “impossible”.
凡是决心取得胜利的人是从来不说“不可能的”。
If you have great talents, industry will improve them;if you have but moderate abilities, industry will supply their deficiency.
如果你很有天赋,勤勉会使其更加完善;如果你能力一般,勤勉会补足其缺陷。
The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.
实现明天理想的唯一障碍是今天的疑虑。
Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.
如果你想要成功,不要去追求成功;尽管做你自己热爱的事情并且相信它,成功自然到来。
One thorn of experience is worth a whole wilderness of warning.
一次痛苦的经验抵得上千百次的告诫。
It never will rain we want to have more roses we must plant trees.
天上不会掉下玫瑰来,如果想要更多的玫瑰,必须自己种植。
No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
没有人值得你流泪,值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。
Each man is the architect of his own fate.
每个人都是自己命运的建筑师。
英语的励志句子 第2篇
A Mask was Stifling Me');
Lucy Freeman
露西?弗里曼
I believe that everyone wants to love and be loved and that happiness stems from a facing and acceptance of self that allows you to give and receive love.
我相信,爱与被爱是每个人的渴望。一个人是否幸福,关键在于他是否拥有爱并能够接受爱。
Some think of love as a passionate, hungry, dramatic feeling, all consuming in intensity and desire. As I see it, this is, rather, immature love: it is a demand on others, not a giving of oneself. Mature love, the love that brings happiness, flows out of an inner fullness, and accepts, understands and is tender toward the other person. It does not ask to be served but only where it may serve.
在有些人看来,爱就是一种充满活力、渴望且极富戏剧性的情感,是占有一切的激情与欲望。而我认为,这种爱是极不成熟的爱:它是向他人的索求,而不是奉献。只有成熟的爱才能带来幸福,它是内心真挚情感的流露,能够接受并理解他人,给予对方温柔与体贴。它不索求服务,而是处处提供服务。
Six years ago I could hardly breathe because of acute sinus. My stomach was always upset and full of queasiness and I had trouble sleeping, even though I felt exhausted all the time. In desperation, after doctors who treated the physical symptoms failed to ease the pain, I tried psychoanalysis. I was lucky to find a wise, compassionate man who showed me what it meant to be able to trust myself and others.
6年前,由于身患急性鼻窦炎,我几乎难以呼吸。胃部也常感不适,易恶心呕吐。失眠问题也一直困扰着我,即使我感到疲惫不堪却依然辗转难眠。可是,医生对我的病症所做的治疗却毫不奏效,我的痛苦丝毫未减。绝望中,我尝试了心理疗法。很幸运的是,我找到了一位博学、热情的医生,他让我懂得了,能够相信自己与他人的意义所在。
The physical ills are gone, but more than that, I have at long last started to acquire a philosophy of living. I had never possessed one. I had lived on dogma and dicta which I had accepted unquestioningly through the years, even though I believed little of it, because I feared to question. But by being unable to live naturally and at peace with myself I was flying in the face of nature. She was punishing me with illness and, at the same time, informing me all was not well just in case I wanted to do something about it.
我身体的疾病得以治愈,而更多的是我最终开始学会一门生活的哲学。我一直是一个循规蹈矩的人,虽然我并不相信那些教条与格言,但多年来,由于不敢质疑,我一直不假思索地将其视为生活的准则。然而我却难以正常而平静地生活,总是坐立不安。最终,我受到了惩罚,病魔缠身,同时也得到了启示:必须对现状做出改变,否则将万事不顺。
In order to change, I needed help in facing myself. For me it was not easy to “know thyself”. All my life I had accepted the lesser of the two evils and run away from self because truth was more dangerous. Once I thought that to survive I had to put on a mask and forget what lay underneath. But masks are false protections and the inner part of me refused to go unheard forever.
为了改变现状,我需要帮助来面对自我。对我来说,“认识自己”并不是件简单的事。一生中,我选择了两个罪恶中较轻的一个:逃避自我,因为真相往往更为危险。曾经我以为,戴上面具,忘记面具下的一切,就能生存下去。
It caught up eventually, and unless it was to master me I had to face such feelings as fear, anger, envy, hatred, jealousy and excessive need for attention. When I realized I could not have done anything else except what I did, I was able to like myself more and be able to like others not for what they could give me but for what I could give to them.
然而,面具是虚假的掩护,我的内心决不肯永远缄默。最终这种情感占了上风,如果它不曾主宰我,我就依然得面对恐惧、愤怒、羡慕、仇恨、嫉妒和极其需要关注的情感。除了顺从自己的内心,我别无选择,当我意识到这一点时,我便更喜欢自己,也更爱他人。这并不是为了他人能给予我什么,而是我能给予他们什么。
The Bible shows the way to easy, happy living in many of its pages. It advises, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Those who expect the most are apt to receive the least. I had expected much and was filled with fury because nothing in the outside world relieved my emptiness and despair. Nothing did, either, until I could face the anger and fury, the emptiness and despair, and slowly start to know such new feelings as compassion, conviction, control, calm. I learned, too, of reason—that judicious combination of thought and feeling that enables me to take more responsibility for myself and others, that allows me to slay the ghosts of the past.
如何能简单幸福地生活,《圣经》中的众多例子都告诉了我们。它建议:“施比受更有福。”那些期望最多的人,往往收获最少。曾经,我期望颇多,内心却充满了愤怒与狂躁,因为外界任何事物都无法填补我内心的空虚与绝望。一切都于事无补,直到我能够面对愤怒、狂躁、空虚与绝望,并慢慢地开始懂得同情、信仰、自制与平静这些新的情感。我也明白了,理智正是思想与情感最明智的结合,它能够让我为自己与他人承担起更多的责任,驱除往昔纠缠我的幽灵。
For me there is much hard work ahead to achieve greater happiness. Yet, the very struggle I have put into achieving a measure of it makes happiness that much more dear.
对我来说,要想更加幸福,还需付出更多艰辛的努力。但是,为获得一定程度的幸福而付出的艰辛努力,才使得幸福弥足珍贵。
英语的励志句子 第3篇
11、能说出来的,未必是太在意的;能写出来的,其实是可以放下的;存在心里的,才是欲罢不能挥之不去的。
12、真正爱一个人,很多事情是会情不自禁的。一个人爱不爱你,在不在意你,你是感觉得到的。不要骗自己,不要勉强自己。
13、无论今天发生多么糟糕的事,都不应该感到悲伤,因为今天是你往后日子里最年轻的一天了。
14、交许许多多的朋友不是什么奇迹。真正的奇迹是当所有人都弃你而去的时候,还有一个朋友坚定的站在你一边。
15、我一直以为,我还喜欢着,我突然发现,原来住在我心里的,是回忆中的他,而我——忘不掉的是我对他付出的感情,而不是他!
16、两个人在一起,更多的不是改变对方,而是接受对方,这就是包容。如果光想着改变对方,那不是生活,那是战争。
17、你爱我,我会陪你;你不爱我,我给你自由。这就是傻傻的我,那个在乎你的我。
18、几米:一样的眼睛有不一样的看法,一样的耳朵有不一样的听法,一样的嘴巴有不一样的说法,一样的心有不一样的想法,是不是因为这样,一样的人生才有不一样的哀愁。
19、张爱玲:不是每一次努力都会有收获,但是,每一次收获都必须努力,这是一个不公平的不可逆转的命题。
20、我不贪心,只有一个小小的愿望:生命中永远有你。
英语的励志句子 第4篇
英语励志名言(带翻译)
Towering genius disdains a beaten path. It seeks regions hitherto unexplored.——Lincoln
卓越的天才不屑走旁人走过的路。他寻找迄今未开拓的地区。
There is no such thing as a great talent without great will - power.——Balzac
没有伟大的意志力,便没有雄才大略。——巴尔扎克
The good seaman is known in bad weather.
惊涛骇浪,方显英雄本色。
Fear not that the life shall come to an end, but rather fear that it shall never have a beginning.——. Newman
不要害怕你的生活将要结束,应该担心你的生活永远不会真正开始。——纽曼
Gods determine what you're going to be.——Julius Erving
人生的奋斗目标决定你将成为怎样的人。——欧文
An aim in life is the only fortune worth finding.——Robert Louis Stevenson
生活的目标,是唯一值得寻找的'财富。-- 史蒂文森
While there is life there is hope.
一息若存,希望不灭。——英国谚语
Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value.——A. Einstein
不要为成功而努力,要为做一个有价值的人而努力。——爱因斯坦
You have to believe in yourself. That's the secret of success.——Charles Chaplin
人必须有自信,这是成功的秘密。——卓别林
Pursue your object, be it what it will, steadily and indefatigably.
不管追求什么目标,都应坚持不懈。
We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope.——Mattin Luther King
我们必须接受失望,因为它是有限的,但千万不可失去希望,因为它是无穷的。——马丁·路德·金
Energy and persistence conquer all things.——Benjamin Franklin
能量加毅力可以征服一切。——_
Nothing seek, nothing find.
无所求则无所获。
Cease to struggle and you cease to live.——Thomas Carlyle
生命不止,奋斗不息。——卡莱尔
A thousand-li journey is started by taking the first step.
千里之行,始于足下。
All things in their being are good for something.
天生我才必有用。
Difficult circumstances serve as a textbook of life for people.
困难坎坷是人们的生活教科书。
Failure is the mother of success.——Thomas Paine
失败乃成功之母。
For man is man and master of his fate.
人就是人,是自己命运的主人。
The unexamined life is not worth living.——Socrates
混混噩噩的生活不值得过。——苏格拉底
None is of freedom or of life deserving unless he daily conquers it anew.——Erasmus
只有每天再度战胜生活并夺取自由的人,才配享受生活的自由,
Our destiny offers not the cup of despair, but the chalice of opportunity. So let us seize it, not in fear, but in gladness.——. Nixon
命运给予我们的不是失望之酒,而是机会之杯。因此,让我们毫无畏惧,满心愉 悦地把握命运。——_
Living without an aim is like sailing without a compass.——John Ruskin
生活没有目标,犹如航海没有罗盘。-- 罗斯金
What makes life dreary is the want of motive.——George Eliot
没有了目的,生活便郁闷无光。——乔治·埃略特
Strength alone knows conflict, weakness is below even defeat, and is born vanquished.——Swetchine
只有强者才懂得斗争;弱者甚至失败都不够资格,而是生来就是被征服的。——斯威特切尼
The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they want, and if they cannot find them, make them.——Bernara Shaw
在这个世界上取得成就的人,都努力去寻找他们想要的机会,如果找不到机会, 他们便自己创造机会。——萧伯纳
A strong man will struggle with the storms of fate.——Thomas Addison
强者能同命运的风暴抗争。——爱迪生
He who seize the right moment, is the right man.——Goethe
谁把握机遇,谁就心想事成。——歌德
Victory won't come to me unless I go to it.——
胜利是不会向我们走来的,我必须自己走向胜利。——穆尔
Man struggles upwards; water flows downwards.
人往高处走,水往低处流。
Man errs as long as he strives.——Goethe
失误是进取的代价。——歌德
The failures and reverses which await men - and one after another sadden the brow of youth - add a dignity to the prospect of human life, which no Arcadian success would do.——Henry David Thoreau
尽管失败和挫折等待着人们,一次次地夺走青春的容颜,但却给人生的前景增添了一份尊严,这是任何顺利的成功都不能做到的。——梭罗
A man can fail many times, but he isn't a failure until he begins to blame somebody else.——J. Burroughs
一个人可以失败很多次,但是只要他没有开始责怪旁人,他还不是一个失败者。——巴勒斯
Learn not and know not.
不学无术。
Learn to walk before you run.
先学走,再学跑。
Let bygones be bygones.
过去的就让它过去吧。
Let sleeping dogs lie.
别惹麻烦。
Let the cat out of the bag.
泄漏天机。
Lies can never changes fact.
谎言终究是谎言。
Lies have short legs.
谎言站不长。
Life is but a span.
人生苦短。
Life is half spent before we know what it is.
人过半生,方知天命。
Life is not all roses.
人生并不是康庄大道。
Life without a friend is death.
没有朋友,虽生犹死。
Like a rat in a hole.
瓮中之鳖。
Like author, like book.
文如其人。
Like father, like son.
有其父必有其子。
Like for like.
一报还一报。
英语的励志句子 第5篇
1、幸福就是为别人着想,为别人做事,不考虑个人得失,幸福就是平安快乐。
2、意志力是幸福的源泉,幸福来源于自我约束。
3、幸福就像你身后的影子,你追不到,但是只要你往前走,它就会一直跟着你。
4、幸福就是和爱人一起漫步,幸福就是吃到妈妈的拿手菜,幸福就是孩子在你的脚跟打转。
5、幸福就是,受到伤害以后,不会一蹶不振,尽管很难,但还努力的对生活保持乐观。速度,不是问题;节奏,必须统一。
6、幸福,就是和喜欢的人,在喜欢的地方,做喜欢的事情,无论是相爱还是争吵。
7、喜欢一个人,是不会有痛苦的。爱一个人,也许有绵长的痛苦,但他给我的快乐,也是世上最大的快乐。
8、我不知道我现正在做的哪些是对的,那些是错的,而当我末究老死的时间我才知道那些。所以我现正在所能做的就是全力做好每件事,然后期待着老死。
9、我爱你!为了你的幸福,我愿意放弃一切,包括你。
10、为什么要那么痛苦地忘记一个人,时间自然会使你忘记。如果时间不可以让你忘记不应该记住的人,我们失去的岁月又有甚么意义?
11、如果世界只剩十分钟,我会和你一同回忆走过的风雨,如果世界只剩三分钟,我会吻你,如果世界只剩一分钟,我会说60次我爱你。
12、誓行是写正在水上的字,刹时即逝;恋爱是建正在水上的房子,摇摆不止;致歉是冬季的雪毯子,老是来早。所以就像我和你是脚中的鸽子,也不克不及一同飞一生。
13、幸福就是我饿了,看别人手里拿个肉包子,那他就比我幸福;我冷了,看别人穿了一件厚棉袄,他就比我幸福;我想上茅房,就一个坑,你蹲那了,你就比我幸福。
14、幸福其实是人的一种美好心态,只有心态平和,心境好的人才能真正体会幸福。
15、缘起缘灭,缘浓缘淡,不是我们能够控制的。我们能做到的,是在因缘际会的时侯好好的珍惜那短暂的时光。
16、用情最深的女人,有最绝对的洁癖,容不得背叛的感情。或,她总在对方背叛前,千方百计甩掉这份感情,再回头也绝对不要!
17、幸福是什么,当你伸出手都可以抓得到的,平淡是真。
18、曾经相遇,总胜过从未碰头。
19、爱是因为相互欣赏而开始的,因为心动而相恋,因为互相离不开而结婚,但更重要的一点是需要宽容,谅解,习惯和适应才会携手一生的。
20、不是因为身处何处何种情境,而是因为精神世界,让人或高兴或悲伤。
英语的励志句子 第6篇
成功的人不是赢在起点,而是赢在转折点。
Successful people not win in the beginning, but win in the turning point.
人生不售来回票,一旦动身,绝不能复返。
Life is not return ticket, once started, can never return.
你是最优秀的!你是最棒的!你是最好的!
You are the best! You are the best! You are the best!
漫无目的的生活就像出海航行而没有指南针。
Aimless life is like sailing without a compass.
黄金时代是在我们的前面,不是在我们的背后。
The golden age is in front of us, not behind us.
幸福和幸运是需要代价的,天下没有免费的午餐!
Happiness and luck is need cost, there is no such thing as a free lunch!
强者创造事变,弱者受制于上帝给他铺排的事变。
The strong create incident, the weak subject to god to give him arrangement of the incident.
意志若是屈从,不论程度如何,它都帮助了暴力。
If will give, no matter how much it has helped the violence.
昨天下了雨,今天刮了风,明天太阳就会出来了。
Have rained yesterday, today, the wind and the sun will come out tomorrow.
他们之所以有能力,是因为他们相信他们有能力。
They have the ability, because they believe that they have the ability.
想干的人永远在找方法,不想干的人永远在找理由。
People who want to do is looking for a way forever, forever those who don't want to do is looking for a reason.
是缘分将我们带到一起,是友情将我们紧紧地相连。
Is the fate to bring us together, our friendship will be our tightly connected.
如果你想勇往直前,那么就学会不要对任何东西有依赖。
If you want to go forward, then learn to do not have dependent on anything.
英语的励志句子 第7篇
英语励志名言(带翻译)
A man is called selfish, not pursuing his own good, but neglecting his neighbour's.
追求自身的利益,不是自私;只有忽视他人的利益,才是自私。
People need to know one another to be at their honest best.
人们需要相互了解才能达到最诚实的境界。
Courtesy costs nothing.
礼多人不怪。
Custom makes all things easy.
习惯成自然。
Desire has no rest.
人的'欲望无止境。
Difficult the first time, easy the second.
一回生,二回熟。
The tragedy of the world is that those who are imaginative have but slight experience, and those who are experienced have feeble imagination.
世界的悲剧就在于有想象力的人缺乏经验,而有经验的人缺乏想象力。
The way to win an atomic war is to make certain it never starts.
赢得核战争的方法是确保它永远不会发生。
Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.
经验是当你没得到想得到之物时所得到的东西。
If you don't learn to think when you are young, you may never learn.
如果你年轻时没有学会思考,那就永远学不会思考。
Treat other people as you hope they will treat you.
你希望别人如何对待你,你就如何对待别人。
Experience more than sufficiently teaches that men govern nothing with more difficult than their tongues.
经验给了我们太多的教训,告诉我们人类最难管制的东西,莫过于自己的舌头。
All rivers run into the sea.
殊途同归。
All time is no time when it is past.
机不可失,时不再来。
An apple a day keeps the doctor away.
一日一个苹果,身体健康不求医。
As heroes think, so thought Bruce.
英雄所见略同。
Whoever is in a hurry shows that the thing he is about is too big for him.
不管是谁,匆匆忙忙只能说明他不能从事他所从事的工作。
Love is ever the beginning of knowledge as fire is of light.
知识总是从爱好开始,犹如光总是从火开始一样。
People need to know one another to be at their honest best.
人们需要相互了解才能达到最诚实的境界。
Do not pull all your eggs in one basket.
别把所有的蛋都放在一个篮子里。
Do not teach fish to swim.
不要班门弄斧。
East or west, home is the best.
东奔西跑,还是家里好。
Experience is the best teacher.
实践出真知。
There is something that is much more scarce, something rarer than ability. It is the ability to recognize.
有的东西比才能稀罕得多,珍贵得多,这就是识别的能力。
The more we do, the more we can do; the more busy we are, the more leisure we have.
事越做越能,人越忙越有空。
A man, like a watch, is to be valued by this manner of going.
一个人,正如一个时钟,是以他的行动来定其价值的。
All happy families are like one another; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
所有幸福的家庭都相似,而每个不幸的家庭各不同。
Friendship is both a source of pleasure and a component of good health.
友谊既是快乐之源泉,又是健康之要素,
One thorn of experience is worth a whole wilderness of warning.
一次痛苦的经验抵得上千百次的告诫。
Throughout life, we rely on small groups of people for love, admiration, respect, moral support and help.
整个一生, 我们都有赖于从一些人群中获得友爱赏识尊重道义支持和帮助。
He that will not allow his friend to share the prize must not expect him to share the danger.
不肯让朋友共享果实的人,不要指望朋友与他共患难。
No man is the whole of himself; his friends are the rest of young idler, an old beggar.
少壮不努力,老大徒伤悲。
Behind the mountains there are people to be found.
天外有天,山外有山。
Bad luck often brings good luck.
塞翁失马,安知非福。
Bread is the stall of life.
面包是生命的支柱。
Business is business.
公事公办。
Clumsy birds have to start flying early.
笨鸟先飞。
Admonish your friends privately, but praise them openly.
要私下告诫朋友,但是要公开夸奖朋友。
Do not change horses in mid-stream.
别在河流中间换马。
Do not have too many irons in the fire.
贪多嚼不烂。
The first step is as good as half over.
第一步是最关键的一步。
You never know your luck.
命运好坏不由己。
Sow nothing, reap nothing.
春不播,秋不收。
The wealth of the mind is the only wealth.
精神的财富是唯一的财富。
You can't judge a tree by its bark.
人不可貌相。
Clothes do not make the man.
人不在衣装。
To be both a speaker of words and a doer of deeds.
既当演说家,又做实干家。
Variety is the spice of life.
变化是生活的调味品。
Bad times make a good man.
艰难困苦出能人。
There is no royal road to learning.
求知无坦途。
Doubt is the key to knowledge.
怀疑是知识的钥匙。
Sharp tools make good work.
工欲善其事,必先利其器。
Wasting time is robbing oneself.
浪费时间就是掠夺自己。
Nurture passes nature.
教养胜过天性。
There is no garden without its weeds.
没有不长杂草的花园。
A man is only as good as what he loves.
一个人要用他所爱的东西有多好来衡量。
Wealth is the test of a man's character.
财富是对一个人品格的试金石。
The best hearts are always the bravest.
心灵最高尚的人,也总是最勇敢的人。
Courtesy is the inseparable companion of virtue.
礼貌和美貌是分不开的伴侣。
Plain living and high thinking.
生活要朴素,情操要高尚。
Good is good, but better carries it.
精益求精,善益求善。
Honesty is the best policy.
诚实为上策。
Gratitude is the sign of noble souls.
感恩是精神高尚的标志。
Politeness costs nothing and gains everything.
礼貌不用花一分钱,却能赢得一切。
A man can't ride your back unless it is bent.
你的腰不弯,别人就不能骑在你的背上。
英语的励志句子 第8篇
1、庸人败于惰,能人败于傲
世上两种人必定惨败,一种是懒惰之人,另一种是骄傲之人。前者什么事都想在“明日”再做,结果总是一事无成;后者瞧不起天下所有人,自认为自己最聪明,常常招来他人的不满和怨恨,于是往往受人诋毁、咒骂,最后被恶意的诽谤所吞没。
2、不必一味讨好别人
讨好每一个人是不可能的,也是没有必要的。讨好每一个人,等于得罪每一个人。刻意去讨好别人,只会使别人产生厌恶。亲近别人要自然,“投机”心态要改变。有时间讨好,不如踏踏实实做事,讨好别人总是靠不住,自己努力才实实在在。
3、好心境是自己创造的
我们常常无法去改变别人的看法,能改变的恰恰只有我们自己。坏的生活不在于别人的罪恶,而在于我们的心情变得恶劣。让生活变好的金钥匙不在别人手里,放弃我们的怨恨和叹息,美好生活就垂手可得。我们主观上本想好好生活,可是客观上却没有好的生活,其原因是总想等待别人来改善生活。不要指望改变别人,自己做生活的主人。
4、用心做自己该做的事
人生是如此的短暂,哪有心思去浪费呢?有智慧的哲人曾经说过:“大街上有人骂我,我是连头也不回的,根本不想知道这个无聊之人!”我们既不要去伤害人家,也不要被别人的批评左右,还是按照自己的愿望,先踏踏实实学好本领再说。特别在少年时要全力以赴学本领,不要分心。
5、别总是自己跟自己过不去
学会自己欣赏自己,等于拥有了获取快乐的金钥匙.欣赏自己不是孤芳自赏,欣赏自己不是唯我独尊,欣赏自己不是自我陶醉,欣赏自己更不是固步自封…自己给自己一些自信,自己给自己一点愉快,自己给自己一脸微笑,何愁没有人生的快乐呢?!经常要自己给自己过节,学会寻找愉悦的心情。
6、不要追逐世俗的荣誉
终生寻找所谓别人认可的东西,会永远痛失自己的快乐和幸福。庸俗的评论会湮灭自己的个性,世俗的指点会让自己不知所措。为钱而钱会使自己六亲不认,为权而权会使自己胆大妄为,为名而名会使自己巧取强夺。真实的我在刻意的追逐之中,会变成一张张碎片随风飘扬,世俗的我已变得面目可憎。
7、极端不可取
有些人常常因为忧虑过度,而导致自己精神失常;有些人却因为麻木不仁,造成自己对任何事情都无动于衷。前者常为寻找理性而痛苦,因聪明过头而衰亡,愚蠢的根源在于什么都懊悔。后者不知悔恨为何物,整天稀里糊涂地生活,活着与死去没有什么区别。
8、每个人都有自己的活法
自己的伤痛自己清楚, 自己的哀怨自己明白, 自己的快乐自己感受。也许自己眼中的地狱,却是别人眼中的天堂;也许自己眼中的天堂,却是别人眼中的地狱。生活就是这般的滑稽。不要总疑春色在人家,关键在于自己心态的调整。
9、喜欢自己才会拥抱生活
盲目自大自尊,是骄傲无知的人生,一味自暴自弃,是消极悲观的人生。了解自己比了解别人更困难,喜欢自己比喜欢别人更不容易。拥有健康的恰当的自尊心理,面对挫折会表现得格外坚强。不为外界的诱惑而丢失自我,不为一时的挫折否定自己。时时客观冷静地评价自己,每每乐观中肯地赞赏自己。若连自己都不爱,还能爱别人吗?喜欢自己吧!
10、福中有祸,祸中有福
莫被一时之得失冲昏头脑,一味陶醉于暂时的胜利。自己一定要居安思危,切莫居功自傲,洋洋得意。陶醉胜利,意味着驻足停顿,陶醉胜利,意味着失去警惕。人生路上要永不松懈,胜利仅仅是一个小小的路标。要想取得最后的胜利,只要努力,努力,再努力。莫为一时之得所迷惑,谁笑得最晚,谁笑得最开心。
11、重要的是活得充实
把每一天过好是最大的幸福,快乐源于每天的感觉良好。总忧虑明天的风险,总抹不去昨天的阴影,今天的生活怎能如意?总攀比那些不可攀比的,总幻想那些不能实现的,今天的心灵怎能安静?任何不切实际的东西,都是痛苦之源,生命的最大杀手是忧愁和焦虑。痛苦源于不充实,生活充实就不会胡思乱想。
12、愉悦的根基在自己身上
一般人总是将人生的愉悦,寄托在外界的事务上,依附于世俗的认同上。百般看重地位、财产,以及待遇、名誉等东西,自己一旦失去这些,便是沉重的打击,常会痛不欲生,其幸福和快乐的根基也随之毁灭。假如自己真是这样过生活,那么快乐离我们是相当遥远的。为什么要让别人来评价自己的快乐程度,把握好自己。
13、感觉幸福就是幸福
许多人都在刻意追求所谓的幸福;有的虽然得到了,其代价却巨大无比。许多哲人都说,幸福是种感觉,就如同“佛”就在你我心中。幸福的感觉随满足程度而递减,与人的心境、心态密切相关。先哲们说:得之愈艰、爱之愈深,拥有幸福, 常思艰难。一个人总是感觉不到幸福,是自己的最大悲哀。幸福是种感觉,不知足,永不会幸福。
14、别人的恩泽要牢记
目光短浅的人总是“忘恩负义”,危机时到处求助,事成之后再不露面。求人时信誓旦旦,得逞后胡作非为。这种人最被人鄙视。“忘恩负义”让朋友伤心,“忘恩负义”是急功近利的表现。“忘恩负义”只得益于一时,却会永远失信于人。切忌过河拆桥过河拆桥,会断了自己的后路。
15、凡事要留有余地
每一个人都会在自己的生命旅程中,遭遇到完全不同的“三种人”。第一种是能够理解、欣赏和器重自己的人;第二种是曲解、中伤甚至排斥自己的人;第三种人是与自己毫无关系、无关痛痒的人。第一种人对自己有知遇之恩,应当尊为师友,滴水之恩当涌泉相报。第二种人对自己造成深深的伤害,需要智慧地远离,而不是烦恼和计较。对于第三种人要以礼相待、和平共处。了解不同的人,区别对待,物以类聚,人以群分。
16、己所不欲勿施于人
把自己的主观意志强加于人,于己于人均是件痛苦的事情。以自己的威严强加自己的意志,别人只是口服而心不服,而且日久必生反抗之习。以自己的固执强加自己的意志,别人仅是默忍或是隐怒,但是日久也可能反目成仇。检讨自己的言行是否与社会和谐,才能真正得到别人的认同。人与人是不可能一致的,不要以我为中心。
17、得意不忘形,失意不失态
身处顺境必须格外谨慎,否则容易乐极生悲。人生得意的时候容易忘形,一忘形就不知道自己姓什么,于是恶念和恶行就会趁隙而入。身处逆境必须格外忍耐,否则容易早早夭折。人生失意的时候容易失态,一失态就不知道自己的未来,于是消极和绝望就会趁隙而入。笑看人生潮起潮落,守住自己的心。
18、人生应当欢乐有度
适当的娱乐活动能调节情绪,无休无止的欢乐却易转益为害。物极则反,数穷则变。“大凡快意处,即是多病处。”“棋可遣闲,易动心火。…”一味狂欢尽兴是肤浅的人生,换来的往往是痛苦的悔恨。尽兴有度是达观的人生。乐极生悲不局限于娱乐方面,涉及到人生的方方面面。欢乐与悲哀是伴生的,欢乐有度会使欢乐常伴。
19、一味忍让不可取
一味忍让,意味着丧失原则;一味忍让,意味着没有人格;一味忍让,意味着软弱可欺;一味忍让,意味着面临步步进逼的危险;一味忍让,意味着将走入绝路。有时候挺身而起、奋力反抗效果更好,得寸进尺是愚人常采用的计策,一再忍让反而助长其嚣张气焰。该出手时就出手,给点厉害也是不得已而为之! 对得寸进尺者该迎头痛击,忍让不一定是好事。
20、多理性行事 少意气用事
做事不能只凭自己的感情,做事更不能只凭自己的感觉,意气用事必有麻烦。有时自己的知觉是错的,事情并不是想象的这般简单,表象总是容易迷惑人心。理性做事不至于反复折腾,理性做事不会出现大的差错,理性做事才不会使自己后悔莫及。切记:凡事都不能太冲动!不能只跟着感觉走,多思考才能不后悔.
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